How do you know that your communication style is effective? Have you ever been accused of speaking too fast? Too slow?

Do-you-rush-through-your-presentation-so-you-can-gauge-your-audience’s-reaction-to-the-message? What about your posture when you stand or sit and conduct a presentation? Where do you place your hands when you speak?

If you were fortunate enough to attend “The Power of a Woman’s Voice” program presented by Speakeasy (www.speakeasyinc.com), you probably know the answers to these questions. Cox Enterprises hosted the seminar April 29th and participants left more aware of how their audio and visual behavior, ticks, and tendencies can impact or detract from their message.

Although the title of the program is “The Power of a Woman’s Voice” it is universal in its application. Regardless of whether you come across as a Sorority Girl (speaking with your hands on your hips) or the “CYA” type (speaking with your hands clasped behind your back), you need to understand the perception of your subconscious conduct.

And for goodness sake, beware of The Fig Leaf! Don’t stand with your hands in front of you; it affects your breathing, and makes you appear uncertain.

Conversely, you should avoid the “CYA” stance. What are you trying to hide? Do you lack faith in the information? Keep your hands casually at your side. Relax.

During the interactive program, participants were encouraged to write down two or three behaviors they felt they should curtail or omit from their delivery, such as speaking too quickly or placing their hands on their hips or behind their backs. They were then given tips and tricks to incorporate into their delivery; and although it felt awkward at first, the result was a much smoother, more impactful presentation.

If you were unable to attend the program, here are two simple methods to determine how you portray yourself: listen to the personal greeting you leave on your voicemail or videotape yourself giving a mock presentation. The result could be surprising!

The guides of this program help you weed out the less effective methods and provide you with exercises you can use to be a more competent, confident, “person-to-be-reckoned-with” speaker. It’s all about finding your inner voice.